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[GGirl]

Glad to see some progress is being made.

VHDrummer, if I could suggest something...

If life has you by the balls right now don't add to the mix by taking on trades. You don't need the added stress, by the sounds of it, and the other traders involved don't need the aggravation.

I hope life takes an upward swing for you soon. Until then, maybe the best thing you can do is refrain from taking on anymore trades.

[BIGTOMIE]

Hey , I think the guy is COOL .
I believe , VHdrummer & I did a trade ...... :thumb:

[Dirq Van]

GGirl wrote: Glad to see some progress is being made.

VHDrummer, if I could suggest something...

If life has you by the balls right now don't add to the mix by taking on trades. You don't need the added stress, by the sounds of it, and the other traders involved don't need the aggravation.

I hope life takes an upward swing for you soon. Until then, maybe the best thing you can do is refrain from taking on anymore trades.

Couldnt agree more

2 words

Trading Break

I wish you all the best Zach, The shows your missing will be right here when your back :thumb:

[rhoadsfanz5150]

First off, I'm sorry you have life isn't going well, and I understand you have a life outside of trading. You should have kept the communication open, and without getting into details, just let me know life was hectic, and you should have let me know you were sending the discs. If you kept the communication open, I wouldn't have to post here. I would have waiten, gotten the discs, and wouldn't post in this forum. If life is too hectic, starting a trade shouldn't on your to do list. I didn't mean to make a scene, it just gets annoying waiting 2 months for something, and never have it arrive. As for DDLR.com, I had no part of that, and I kept it just to this site in respect to you, I have never been a big fan of flame wars or any shi* like that. Bottom line, keep the communication open, and don't take on more than you can chew.

BTW, you don't seem like a bad person, and I'll have this thread edited/deleted once I recieve the discs.

[Mr Walker]

rhoadsfanz5150 wrote: As for DDLR.com, I had no part of that,

oh yeah... that was all me.
i'll take credit for that.

[oryo]

VHDrummer wrote: Well bascially my life has been pure shit the past few months if anyone here has been reading at DDLR.com but there's more than what I posted.

Here's a copy and paste:

Ha, I sent everything out today finally before I went to work. I know I have been really far behind on ALL of my trading. But between working, staying late at school, my parents hating each other, my "girlfriend" drama, and the fact that when I say "hey these packages have had to go out for three weeks, can we get them out?" it doesn't get done. Anyway, a lot of shit, finally got them mailed thanks to mom who finally did it.

I could go into plenty more detail but I'm getting sick and tired of talking about it...I'm just really, really, really stressed out right now and haven't found any time to do really much of anything.

And of course I never have bad intentions to screw someone over, I never have and never will, it's just sometimes timing isn't always on my side, more so now than ever.

This sounds like the same exact thing I was going through when I was in High School.... Oh no wait!!! I meant last week! :yell: Life does throw you some curveballs but things do get better.... I remember when I was your age ( 2-3 years ago sssh ) and it was tough and I believe things are tougher now then when I was in H.S. (remember 2-3 years ago :D )

If your having a hard time or too busy don't go taking up anymore than you can chew on trades... Once you screw over somebody your name will dragged in mud! Rhoadsfanz5150 contacted me almost a month ago and I asked him I will PM you but then he told me that things were taken care of... Here we are a month later and now we have to go through with this and he still doesn't have his discs.

Take a break from trading and the important thing is get a hold of your life and take control of it... Focus in on school!!! Get an education because this is your future... Take a break from trading! Don't worry if you missed something because when you get back I will personally send you whatever you missed or want.

The important thing is no matter how bad things are things will get better in time and take control of your life! Once you do that you will realize when you look back at it and laugh your F^ckin' head off because you realized all that stress wasn't worth it.

Now send my man his sh!t!!! :thumb:

[King Edward]

You rule Ory....great post! :thumb:

[Jericho]

I'm glad you guys gave him a final chance to explain. I dealt with him a couple of times and he was very cool with me. You guys were very cool with him once he explained. Most places would have still ripped him apart. Hope things get better for you VHDrummer. Very classy post Ory. Well said. :thumb:

[zambdrvr]

Great to see a pending resolution in this forum for a change. VHDrummer's a good kid.

He'll be my enemy for a couple of weeks if my Sens face the Wings for the cup.
Don't worry GG and Randy....U2. :p :D

[VHLIVE]

WTF?...So we run to other sites now and kick a guy when he is down????? I dont find that funny at all. Getting off on someone elses grief is no laughing matter. Remember this is a hobby for most of us and we all have lives away from the trading world. Sometimes trading takes the bottom on our list of priorities and people end up waiting. As long as you keep that chain of cummunication open and let people know whats going on everything should be fine. Im slow as shit sometimes, but i keep the communication open and make sure everyone knows whats going on. Thats the key....their time is just as important as yours.

Lastly, if i hear of someone talking shit or making fun of a member of this site on another site..just for shits and giggles...ill make sure your days are done here at VHTrading.

Lets respect each other here, this trade will work itself out....bashing people on other sites is just sad....

[Mr Walker]

VHLIVE wrote: WTF?...So we run to other sites now and kick a guy when he is down????? I dont find that funny at all. Getting off on someone elses grief is no laughing matter. Remember this is a hobby for most of us and we all have lives away from the trading world. Sometimes trading takes the bottom on our list of priorities and people end up waiting. As long as you keep that chain of cummunication open and let people know whats going on everything should be fine. Im slow as shit sometimes, but i keep the communication open and make sure everyone knows whats going on. Thats the key....their time is just as important as yours.

Lastly, if i hear of someone talking shit or making fun of a member of this site on another site..just for shits and giggles...ill make sure your days are done here at VHTrading.

Lets respect each other here, this trade will work itself out....bashing people on other sites is just sad....

It's not bashing, it's good natured ribbing and VH Drummer seemed to have no problem with it.

[VHLIVE]

Mr Walker wrote: VHLIVE wrote: WTF?...So we run to other sites now and kick a guy when he is down????? I dont find that funny at all. Getting off on someone elses grief is no laughing matter. Remember this is a hobby for most of us and we all have lives away from the trading world. Sometimes trading takes the bottom on our list of priorities and people end up waiting. As long as you keep that chain of cummunication open and let people know whats going on everything should be fine. Im slow as shit sometimes, but i keep the communication open and make sure everyone knows whats going on. Thats the key....their time is just as important as yours.

Lastly, if i hear of someone talking shit or making fun of a member of this site on another site..just for shits and giggles...ill make sure your days are done here at VHTrading.

Lets respect each other here, this trade will work itself out....bashing people on other sites is just sad....

It's not bashing, it's good natured ribbing and VH Drummer seemed to have no problem with it.

Thats your opinion...i wont get into a war of words here...i stand by what i said in my previous post. If you want to discuss it further PM me.

.... Rhoads when the trade is complete send me a PM and ill reopen the thread.

until then ill close this up.

[rhoadsfanz5150]

I got the discs today, thank you VHDrummer. I'm sorry I had to post here, but if you kept the communication open, I would have known you were sending the DVD's.

[VHLIVE]

Another Happy Ending...Locking this one up.

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