OK, you people you are my friends. So here it is – my marriage of 31 years ended 4 months ago. My wife came back and said let’s work it out and give me another chance. Tonight she said we are done, but she loves me.

That sucks Cam. Unfortunately, sometimes life just plain sucks. I hope things get better for you soon.

That sucks man, stay strong. You’ll get through it. 31 years is a long time to just put behind you and start over but you can do it.

Don’t know what to say other than your friends at vhtrading are here to help any way we can.

Sorry to hear about this Cam. Stay strong.

31 years is a very long time… hopefully, many of those years were good. That’s something to be thankful for.

All the best.

hang in there bro….. it sucks I know. I went through it back 10 years ago and it hurts but it does get better and it gets MUCH better…. life goes on and you will be fine.

hang in the bro. Your gonna be ok. Time will heal and bring you happiness

Rob

I”ve been through that 2-3 years ago a 16 year marriage down the tube..lol It was weird at first for a while but after believe or not it all made sense and for the better. Life is great and full of opportunities!! Hang in there im sure you will back up soon rockin!!!

guess i should have let her stay gone the first time,thanks guys

Hang in there Cam.Life does get better.I know it is rough now but keep your head up,be strong and the road ahead will be good for you.
Tim

Sorry to hear that, bro. I’m in the midst of my second divorce. If she’s willing to walk away, she’s not worth the effort. That’s all I can say. Chin up, dude. Life will get so much better once this passes. I know it hurts and it sucks. Just stay positive, my friend.

My marriage of 14 years just ended six months ago, it’s hard (mostly just weird) at first but it gets much, much better. Time heals all wounds, you’re going to have to live through some difficult days but it will all be good. Just don’t wallow in it, get out and do stuff no matter what.

hang in there! 31 yrs says it was worth a 2nd shot, it’ll get better

Cam,

Stay frosty, brother.
Remember it’s better to get slapped in the face with the truth than to be kissed by a lie.
Give her credit for being honest with you and do the right thing (what my ex did for me when I asked for a divorce). My ex gave me the only thing I wanted from her, my freedom, and she asked for nothing in return. I’m forever grateful to her for that and she’ll always be one of my best and most respected friends as long as I live.

Vaya con dios, hombre!

-Mikey